Today I was reading a blog post by Karen Newman about Internet Marketing Success Tips and my friend Oliver Tausend‘s comment triggered a thought.
Some people are setting their goals and measuring results in such a way that they guarantee failure.
You might be thinking “how does setting goals cause failure?”
Very simple, you set the wrong goals.
More specifically you identify a task that needs to be done and you assign a goal that is all or nothing.
This is how people falsely determine whether a task works or not.
I think it would be more clear if I give an example.
Let’s say that an internet marketing task I would like to perform is article marketing.
Many would set their goal in terms of SEO and traffic to determine success or not.
It seems logical because that is the end game.
But that would be wrong.
Your actual goal should be to master article marketing not the results of performing article marketing.
You will know when you achieve this goal when you start to see SEO results and traffic.
How many times have you heard someone say “okay I will give it a try”.
What does that mean?
It means they will try it once and based on the results determine if it works or not.
If they do not get results they determine that it does not work.
If instead of “trying” something they decide to master it, then the results do not determine success or failure.
The results determine areas of strength and areas in need of improvement.
When you set goals this way you actually guarantee success.
My question for you today is how do you set goals?
Let me know in the comments below.

Peter Fuller MBA CA
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#1 by Kyle Quinlan on October 6, 2011 - 12:06 am
I like to set small short term goals and then 3 month, 6 month, and 1 year goals. After I do this, all I have to do is focus on the short term goals to ensure that I reach all of my long term goals. It takes the stress out of feeling like I will never make it to my destination.
I also like to go over my long term goals every once in a while to make any necessary adjustments since sometimes plans change.
Thanks for the post Peter!
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#2 by Etieno Etuk on September 23, 2011 - 11:48 am
Awesome post, Peter. When someone says to me that they will try, I almost certainly know that they’re not going to do what they say they will. The word “try” is a word that people use when they don’t have the commitment whatsoever to what they’re saying they going to do. I work on taking this word out of my daily vocabulary.
Thanks for sharing.
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#3 by Peter Fuller on September 24, 2011 - 10:21 am
Good stuff Etieno. Whenever I say “I will try it” I definitely mean I am not overly committed
#4 by Kevin Martineau on September 20, 2011 - 7:32 pm
Hi Peter:
I really like what you have said in this post. It is much more important (and productive) to master something versus than just trying something.
Kevin
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#5 by Peter Fuller on September 24, 2011 - 10:09 am
Exactly Kevin.
#6 by Raena Lynn on August 20, 2011 - 2:04 pm
Hi Peter,
This post should go viral! It is excellent because again, it makes sense. You are a straight shooter, practical guy. That is the main reason I love visiting your blog.
When people say they will “try,” that means no. For example if you invite someone to an outing and they reply, “I’ll try.” That means they won’t make it and they have no intentions of attending. It really is a “cop out” word.
Mastering the goal is the key. Then the results will come. Your example of article marketing is perfect to illustrate your point. “Your actual goal should be to master article marketing not the results of performing article marketing.”
The bottom line is setting goals are essential, but the goals need to be structured effectively and they cannot be the wrong goals. Thanks again Peter!
Raena Lynn
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#7 by Peter Fuller on August 21, 2011 - 9:20 am
Thanks Raena, I do appreciate your comments
#8 by Andrew Walker on August 17, 2011 - 10:44 pm
Hi Peter. Thanks for sharing this. I just found out about your post and it’s very interesting!
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#9 by Martin on August 6, 2011 - 7:41 pm
The way i deal with goals is that i set them moderately low. Never inaccessible. And i try to reach and surpass them, boosting my morale when i manage to do it. It’s an easy method to stay motivated.
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#10 by Terrific Tonya Heathco on June 28, 2011 - 10:48 am
Hello Pete -
Good subject! I learned this lesson the hard way. Years of trying then an angel spoke in my ear told me to stop trying and just do it! So, now my goals are written out in positive action statements and my tasks are done right away or planned for another day. I have learned to be flexible while still being disciplined. If I have a day where my health does not allow action, I set it in my mind and on paper that the first well day is my next day of action.
Looking forward to more -
Terrific Tonya Heathco
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#11 by Nicole Rushin on May 17, 2011 - 5:59 pm
If you are trying you are not doing and if you are thinking you are not feeling.
So what you are saying is set a goal and learn from the results you get? When we set goals we should set them to master a task and gauge our results. An interesting way to look at it because this causes you to look at things more objectively not as a pass or fail sort of thing but where do I go now sort of thing.
#12 by Lloyd Dobson on February 4, 2011 - 8:55 am
Hello Peter,
We all have a choice, we can simply go through life hoping for the best, or we can design our lives. It is a lot more fun designing your life and obtaining all that you want out of life. Goal setting, applying the disciplines necessary to accomplish them are critical.
We are all effected by 5 factors:
(1) Our Environment
(2) Our Events
(3) Our Knowledge
(4) Our Results
AND MOST IMPORTANT (5) Our view of the future. Make sure your dreams are part of your daily activity.
And more important is the reasons. Why do you want your goal? If we don’t have enough reasons for accomplishing great things, we probably won’t accomplish the goal. Reasons first, the goal second!
Go out and make today the best day ever!
Lloyd Dobson
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#13 by Richard Goutal on November 13, 2010 - 9:57 am
I confess that I don’t have formal goals. When I have written them, I have a way of forgetting about them. I do however make plans. I have created a plan for what I want my business to have and offer, a funnel plan, if you will. I work continuously to bring those products and services into being, and to market them in accordance with my plan.
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#14 by Peter Fuller on November 22, 2010 - 10:33 am
Hey Richard
I am reminded of my goals everyday because I have them written down and above my computer in my office.
#15 by Linnea on October 20, 2010 - 1:19 pm
Hi Peter,
Thanks for the thought provoking post. I do typically start with the end result and chunk it down to get to smaller achievable tasks however, the ‘mastery’ part is an interesting angle. Seems as though this may be a great way to distinguish the goal from the measurement of success (e.g. 100 visits a day) which is where many people err. I’ll be revisiting my goals with this in mind and see how they stack up. Thanks again.
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#16 by Peter Fuller on October 24, 2010 - 9:22 pm
Hello Linnea
I believe when it comes to running your own business it all comes down to mastering something.
Thanks for stopping by and I enjoyed your post on SEO.
#17 by Mark Hiatt on September 21, 2010 - 11:14 pm
Ahh, mistakes. The backbone of success. I admit that I used to be afraid of mistakes and it took awhile to appreciate them fully. But you are right – they are essential to our success. Thanks for the post.
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#18 by Peter Fuller on October 24, 2010 - 9:18 pm
Hey Mark, I like that “mistakes, the backbone of success”
Thanks for the comment.
#19 by John Gaydon on September 14, 2010 - 4:56 pm
Hi Pete,
Great post. Over the years I have found that setting goals that are within your power to achieve works best. That means making a goal to get one article published. Once you do that, go for 2 or 3, and work up to maybe one a week. It is amazing how much we achieve when we focus on simple tasks! Keep up the good work. Many will benefit from this.
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#20 by Peter Fuller on October 24, 2010 - 9:17 pm
Thanks John!
#21 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:24 pm
Thanks everyone for all of the fantastic comments below.
Here is what I suggest, always think of your end goal as mastering something.
For example, weight loss, your goal would be to master your health.
Then break down that goal and work backwards to come up with a plan of actions. Each action will have its own goals and measurable results.
When you follow this process you will have a much more detailed plan that just “trying”
Peter
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#22 by Bruce Cagle on September 13, 2010 - 7:26 am
Hi Peter, the best line in the post is: “If instead of “trying” something they decide to master it”. If more people lived this and worked at mastering what they need to do, then more people would be successful. So Thanks for the post, it will help many people do a better job and be successful in our industry.
Bruce
#23 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:14 pm
Hey Bruce, I appreciate the comment
#24 by Scented rocks on September 12, 2010 - 11:41 am
I can totally hear and feel what you are saying, I have been down that path numerous times as it would be fair to say that we all have. I used to say I will try, now I say I will do it and take action.
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#26 by Gary Young- china Sourcing on September 12, 2010 - 10:20 am
What did master Yoda say? “Do or not do, there is no try”. Another smart quote from Peter Drucker is.. (What gets measured gets done” And you have to measure something to know it you just tried or you actually succeeded.
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#27 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:17 pm
Hey Gary
That is so true about measurement, which explains why so many in the corporate world avoid it
#28 by Elmar Sandyck on September 12, 2010 - 2:19 am
Hi Peter,
Indeed, having a clear goal as well as mastering the process to reach it is very important for success. Sometimes it’s just easy to give up and proceed to the next plan when you don’t see any results (which is actually driven more of impatience). I guess aside from having realistic goals, being patient enough to master something is also an important factor in goal setting.
I appreciate your insights on this and thanks for sharing this post.
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#29 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:18 pm
Hello Elmar
Thanks for stopping by and I am definitely in wuth the Do Follow Blogs Movement
#30 by Darlene Davis on September 11, 2010 - 7:50 pm
Peter,
In Darren Hardy ‘s “Design Your Best Year Ever,” he lays out setting goals in every area of your life, writing them out in detail, breaking them into smaller chunks and then reviewing them on a weekly basis.
While I haven’t been fully attentive to the weekly review, the process of writing goals out and fine tuning them as you move forward has been a huge plus.
I’ve taken “try” out of my vocabulary. That’s simply an excuse!
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#31 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:19 pm
Darlene you are a true inspiration, you are definitely a master at what you do.
#32 by Chris Owen on September 11, 2010 - 3:21 pm
Hey Peter,
Good points here. Many people I’ve talked with are quick to talk about what didn’t work, and ask for advice on what will.
They just don’t give things enough time and effort to truly know what works.
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#33 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:20 pm
Hey Chris
When somone asks me what works I usually ask them what they have already tried because chances are what they tried works
#34 by Dr. Adam Sheck on September 11, 2010 - 3:17 pm
Peter,
Great post on how to define goals or more accurately their successful attainment. To me, it’s always been a process of growth and improvement, so the final result isn’t as critical, as you’ve also suggested. One of my current goals is to monetize my Internet presence as “The Passion Doctor.”
One way to define success would be to operationalize each step along the way. I am successful when I have generated 1000 pageviews/day. I am successful when I get 100 new optins/day. I am successful when I have sold 100 “units” of my videocourse. Or I could go for instant success by saying that once I make $1, I am successful!
Or I can do it all! I can enjoy the wins along the way as well as define “final” goals. I’m more interested in creating the “vision” of what success looks and FEELS like and then enjoying the markers along the way.
Thanks for a thought provoking post,
Adam
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#35 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:23 pm
Great comment Adam
Maybe you could also define success as helping a couple through your website.
Testimonials on your site would be powerful.
#36 by Bonnie Silvia on September 10, 2010 - 8:23 pm
Hi Peter!
Great Post to inspire comments and pass along information! In answer to your question I start with a vision and map out middle and short term goals toward that. I check to see the vision, my values and goals are all aligning. Since the first step is the hardest, I create a short term specific goal which is can be done in a reasonable time frame, can be attained and measured. Once that is achieved I reward myself and continue to keep making steps to the vision. Even if the vision is altered the movement is forward! Let your light shine!
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#37 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:24 pm
Thanks Bonnie, that is a great way to create goals.
Much more detailed than “I want to be rich”
#38 by LGN Prosperity on September 10, 2010 - 7:50 pm
Hey Peter,
Setting goals is one of the most important things an Entrepreneur could possible be doing in their life. You really need to focus more on developing you than developing your business.
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#39 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:27 pm
Thanks for your comment.
I have no idea what LGN is but I am going to find out
#40 by LGN Prosperity on September 13, 2010 - 3:33 pm
Your welcome Peter,
Do some investigating and if you wanna know more, you know where to find me
#41 by Charlie Holles on September 10, 2010 - 4:54 pm
yes I agree Peter that we should aim to really master something. Results?? Well following on from Ana’s question, we can’t always see results directly.
This is the principle of the ‘Slight Edge’. You just keep performing daily actions, fine tuning as needed and the results will come – but not always in the way we expect or want when we start.
You’ve prompted some interesting comments here.
All the best
Charlie Holles
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#42 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:28 pm
Hey Charlie
When we try to master something many times the results are not what we expect.
#43 by Harry @ GoalsOnTrack on September 9, 2010 - 6:42 pm
That’s a very fresh angle to think about setting goals. It’s always better to set your goals so that they can be measured using a scale or percentage.
#44 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:30 pm
Hello Harry
Thanks for the comment and your Goals on Track site looks interesting.
#45 by Howie Perks on September 9, 2010 - 1:41 pm
Hey Peter,
Goal setting is very important to make sure one has a track to run on and not get off track.
I agree with you on the whole “try” thing. It’s either “do” or “don’t do”.
I set my goals by first determining what I ultimately want.
I then break it down into steps on how to achieve it. it is these successive approximations that are the key to taking me in the right direction.
If along the way a certain step did not work as expected I will re-evaluate it and try again until I get it right!
Thanks for the article
In Success,
Howie perks
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#46 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:31 pm
Hello Howie
and thank you for your comments
#47 by Larry Rivera on September 9, 2010 - 10:48 am
Hi Peter,
When I first started out goal setting I did it wrong. I didn’t fully understand how to get goals to work for me.
Then I applied goal setting to loosing weight and exercising. I started to take small tiny steps and realized that each little step got me one step closer to my ultimate goal which was to loose 40lbs.
What I realized is if you take a small tiny little goal and check it off your list, and then accomplish more tiny little goals.
You will get into a habit of accomplishing your main goal whatever that happens to be.
I noticed in my online marketing the same holds true.
For example, I have never been one to comment on peoples blog simply because I never felt I had the time.
So I wrote a goal to just comment on 2 peoples blog a day. As the weeks go on I find myself commenting on more and more blogs.
Thanks for sharing,
Larry
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#48 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:35 pm
Excellent way to set goals Larry.
Take small steps and build up.
Keep it up, especially the healthy lifestyle.
#49 by Wayne Wu on September 9, 2010 - 5:19 am
Hey Peter,
I know what you’re talking about, and I absolutely agree. Our goals should really be mastery, rather than results, because results are largely out of our own control, whereas mastery of something is in our control. Yeah, the results you’re after will manifest itself when you master a skill.
Good one,
Wayne
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#50 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:39 pm
Hello Wayne
In business our goals should definitely be about mastery.
I enjoyed your blog post on leadership, everyone should give it a read
#51 by Mavis Nong I Attraction Marketing Online on September 9, 2010 - 4:53 am
Interesting read, Peter.
So true – I often hear aspiring network marketers say: “I’ll just give it a try” of “I hope this works for me”.
The truth is, it probably wont, because if you’re hoping something will work for you, you’re leaving it up to some chance or “magic” to become successful. Unfortunately that’s not going to happen
Thanks for sharing this thought-provoking post.
All the best,
Mavis Nong
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#52 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:40 pm
Hey Mavis
That is exactly what people are doing when they say they will give it a try, they are hoping some magic will occur
#53 by karin@social bookmarking on September 8, 2010 - 10:34 pm
I set my goals based on my long term plan. I break that plan down into goals. The more uncomfortable I am with the goal I want to achieve, the more I break it down, so that I can see past the hurdle. If I can focus on a small piece and when I get it done go to the next, my success rate is much higher, than when I start on a project that I an nervous about and takes days or weeks to accomplish. I guess the risk of loosing a lot of valuable time is reduced this way, which makes it worth the effort.
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#54 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:41 pm
Hello Karin
And when you are done with your process you are a master
#55 by Beth Allen on September 8, 2010 - 9:56 pm
I set the end goal, but then set benchmarks of achievement along the way. It’s the only way to be a dreamer and to be realistic at the same time.
It is critical that we celebrate the small steps ~ or we’ll stop taking them and succumb to “failure”!
Interesting perspective, thanks for sharing Peter.
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#56 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:44 pm
Hey Beth
I agree, celebrate the small steps
#57 by Karen Newman on September 8, 2010 - 9:55 pm
Peter…very interesting perspective. I am a huge proponent of maintaining a positive mindset in everything I do and like to view even the smallest achievement as a “success.” If something does not go according to a predefined plan after I “try it” then I simply choose another direction and continue to pursue my ultimate goal or destination. In essence, I break each larger goal into mini-goals and embark on a journey of success after success.
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#58 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:45 pm
Hello Karen, you are a great example of someone who has achieved their goals
#59 by Emily on September 8, 2010 - 4:01 pm
I create S.M.A.R.T. goals. S for specific, M for measurable, A for actionable, R for relevant, and T for timed. The goal should be written out so that it is specific, be measurable so that you know if you reached it, relevant because you don’t want to create a goal that has no benefits, and timed so that you have a deadline to reach it.
#60 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:46 pm
Emily, I love SMART goals
#61 by Ilka Flood on September 8, 2010 - 3:23 pm
Hi Peter,
Interesting perspective, but it makes total sense. How does Yoda say it …”Do or do not …there is no try.” Try picking up a chair. You either pick it up, or you don’t
Mastering the task at hand before moving to the next goal is great advice. Also, and that’s a mistake I made before, if you set a time frame to your goals, make sure it’s achievable within that time frame .
Great post!
Ilka
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#62 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:55 pm
Thanks Ilka, I always appreciate your comments and blog posts
#63 by Jerome Ratliff on September 8, 2010 - 11:13 am
Hey Peter.
You’re absolutely right. Concentrate on the tools and techniques that will provide you the results instead of focusing just on the results aspect of it.
A great example is blogging. Focus on getting good at blogging by helping others achieve what they want before you will get any results.
Kind of like sowing and reaping.
Have a great day,
Jerome Ratliff
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#64 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:57 pm
Hey Jerome, thanks for the comment and your blog post on NM Breakthroughs
#65 by Kareem Williams on September 8, 2010 - 8:08 am
Awesome read my friend, Peter man you are a rock in this industry
#66 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:58 pm
Thanks Kareem
and you are the King of Video
#67 by Cole Stan on September 8, 2010 - 3:49 am
In short, most people perform something in order to reach their goals once then will eventually surrender if they don’t see any positive result at all. Then will go to other ways again and do the same process and decide similarly.
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#68 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 3:59 pm
Hey Cole, and that is exactly what happens when they do not set their goals to master something
#69 by Ana | Traffic Generation Cafe on September 7, 2010 - 11:31 pm
Set your mind on the process and not the end results? Interesting thought, Peter.
It actually makes sense, but the spirit of providing an alternative point of view (wow, I am getting better at sugar coating:), let me ask you this: if your ultimate goal is not the result, then how do you know when you achieve your goal?
Ana
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#70 by Peter Fuller on September 8, 2010 - 9:59 am
Ana, I always welcome alternative points of view, even the sugar coated ones
Your ultimate goal is the result, what I am saying is that you need to identify the right goal.
Mastering something is a goal and you need to identify results that will indicate you have mastered it.
Compare that to people who say “I tried article marketing and it does not work”.
They based their goals on the results of performing a task, not on mastering the task.
#71 by Fred Williams on September 7, 2010 - 10:48 pm
Hey Peter,
I think I have to agree with the mastery crowd. I have several goals now that cover everything from video marketing to completely understanding network marketing. The common outcome I am expecting in all of them is mastery. Yeah, I do have action steps that I am taking to achieve mastery and everyday, I learn new action steps that need to be taken. I totally agree with you that the results are just a measure of your strengths and weaknesses and not necessarily a reflection of your success. Great post man, this really has gotten me to thinking.
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#72 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:01 pm
Good stuff Fred, you are definitely mastering video, which reminds me I need to check out your latest
#73 by Debbie Lattuga on September 7, 2010 - 8:35 pm
I start from the end result and work backward. If I was trying to drive traffic from articles, I would first write 10 articles to see which ones drove the most traffic.
Then I would pick the top 3, try to determine what drove the traffic. Then write 10 more using what I learned. And then I’d do the same thing.
I think if you quit writing articles, you’ll never know if it’s successful or not.
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#74 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:01 pm
Hey Debbie, that is the perferct way to master article writing
#75 by Terry Tiessen on September 7, 2010 - 8:05 pm
I like that “Your actual goal should be to master article marketing not the results of performing article marketing” I discovered this in myself, back when I was beginning MLM, and was told to make a dream board. When the others in the training “meeting” showed theirs, there was a bunch of boats, cars and houses, me, I just had a picture of Indiana Jones and one of Tony Robbins. I realised my motivation was not what I would get but who I could become.
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#76 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:03 pm
Great goal Terry!
#77 by Stacy on September 7, 2010 - 7:30 pm
Great points, Peter!
When I set a goal I want to have specifics of the goal and a certain plan of action. Not much is accomplished with “I’ll try” or generic goals. I’ve been very active with a bunch of offline goals this month and that is the tactic that I’m taking and I’m accomplishing a lot.
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#78 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:03 pm
Hello Stacy
and you did quite well with your 30 day blog challenge
#79 by Josh Garcia on September 7, 2010 - 3:06 pm
Hey Peter,
If you want to get good at something you must master it. That is what I follow and believe in.
Chat with you later…
Josh
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#80 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:05 pm
And you are the master Josh
Love your webinars.
#81 by cheryl ingebrigtsen on September 7, 2010 - 1:11 pm
Great point Peter,
I like keeping my eye on progress & hearing other peoples suggestions, sometimes I can change the most when I get a trusted outside perspective… especially if I’m caught up in “trying”
Cheryl
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#82 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:06 pm
I can tell you Cheryl that you are mastering video because I have followed you for quite awhile.
I love artists
#83 by Robert David Strong on September 7, 2010 - 10:34 am
Hey Peter,
I can totally hear and feel what you are saying, I have been down that path numerous times as it would be fair to say that we all have. I used to say I will try, now I say I will do it and take action. I am one that has been doing article marketing for some time now, and everyday I get a little better and better….can that be a goal? Of course. should it be the end goal, no….
I have goals to educate myself more and more on article marketing, find new sites to get my content on, create new articles on a daily basis, and provide valuable content to readers. Do I have a specific goal to have a certain amount of articles out online, nope! Is that a problem…..nope! I know that when I feel that I have enough articles written and published I need to write 100 more….. It works for me!
I love the post and thank you for sharing
#84 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:08 pm
Thanks for the great comment Robert.
#85 by Heather C Stephens on September 7, 2010 - 9:56 am
I agree with Susanna, beginning with the end it mind is always a great way to plan a goal and work it backwards to plot out what you must do in order to meet it.
In the past I’d focus on big goals that I thought would push me farther, and while I have my BHAG’s out there that I’m ultimately working toward, I find that setting my goals around the things I can actually accomplish with a little stretching builds confidence and helps me to stay motivated. Consistency for me is one of my biggest challenges, so I may set a goal that I want to consistently ________ for the next week. It helps me to have shorter time-frames so I don’t procrastinate.
Thanks for the powerful post!
Heather
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#86 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:11 pm
Hello Heather
I suggest the end result is to master something.
Then break down that goal into smaller steps like you suggest.
#87 by Sherman Smith on September 7, 2010 - 9:00 am
Hey Peter,
This really gives you something to think about. A lot of people will try something, give up early without trying to master it, and move on to the next strategy. This is like jumping from one opportunity to the next without getting anywhere. Thanks for sharing this!
Sherman
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#88 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:12 pm
That is exactly it Sherman.
#89 by Rob Franta on September 7, 2010 - 8:56 am
LOL — Too funny.
If I had a dollar for every time I heard “I’ll try it”. This is a perfect definition of I’ll try it. Too many people don’t take their goals serious.
When ever I set a goal I will break down the main goal into smaller or mini goals. These mini goals will be easily obtainable. This way I can reward myself for making the next goal. It also proves to me what I am doing is working.
In your instance or Article marketing, I would set my ultimate goal as you have, become an expert in Article marketing. Some of my mini goals would be educate myself, auto posters like UAW, spinning, etc, what content, keyword saturation, etc.
Mastering each of these mini goals will lead me to my ultimate goal.
My training module this week “Know your why” covers some great information on Goal setting.
ty peter for another great post.
rob
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#90 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:13 pm
Hey Rob, thanks for the comment and a special shoutout to your training videos, they are fantatsic
#91 by Oliver Tausend on September 7, 2010 - 8:08 am
Hi Peter,
“I try it.” – I always cringe if I hear that from people I speak to at the phone. You hear and feel from the tone of their voice that it will remain a try.
Another issue when it comes to goal setting is the time frame. Most people put themselves under pressure by setting short-term goals that are too ambitious – and underestimate what they can achieve in 5 – 7 years. So not the goal itself is unrealistic, it’s simply an unrealistic time frame for any given goal. So I learned to become a short-term under-achiever and a long-term over-achiever.
Thanks for sharing your insights and the mention. I’m always happy if I am able to trigger thoughts in people
Take care
Oliver
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#92 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:14 pm
Hey Oliver, good insight, you are absolutely right on the time frame, especially if your goal is to master something
#93 by Marcus Baker on September 7, 2010 - 7:34 am
Hi Peter,
How to set goals is probably one of the most written about topics. I seem to change my goal setting strategy often just to try different ways out.
What you say makes sense though.
~Marcus
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#94 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:15 pm
Hey Marcus
Give it a try, your end goal is to master something, then work backwards and work out a plan of steps that also have goals, until you have a complete plan
#95 by Soren Egstrup on September 7, 2010 - 6:26 am
Hi Peter, a beautiful post, it’s the core of life, it’s determine if you fail or succeed.
Soren
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#96 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:16 pm
Thanks Soern, I like that, a “beautiful” post
#97 by Susanna Hess on September 7, 2010 - 1:20 am
Hey Peter,
I’ve never thought about this before. I do believe it’s important to think goals all the way through to the end, or better yet, think of the end first and plan them backward.
It’s really important to give anything you try a nice long trial. It’s a complete waste of time to put any effort into something you’re only willing to try once or even only a few times.
Thanks for this thought provoking post.
Susanna
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#98 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:17 pm
Hello Susanna
food for the thought, the end should always be to master something
#99 by Carstarphen on September 6, 2010 - 11:49 pm
Great post Peter,
Try is an excuse for failure before even making an attempt. Those skills such as goal setting and time management are just as important as article marketing and blogging. Thanks for this.
J
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#100 by Peter Fuller on September 13, 2010 - 4:21 pm
Hey Jeremiah
Thanks for the comments and I love your cartoons